'My husband's friends keep dropping in at all times...'
Dear Diana, I'm 29 and my husband is 33. We tied the knot six months ago.
My husband, however, still thinks that he is single. He keeps bringing friends over or they keep dropping in at all times. I’ve tried reasoning with him, but he says “What’s the big deal? They are cool.” I don’t know how to let him know that they are intruding on our privacy.
Your hubby seems to be of an outgoing friendly disposition. There are many guys who love to be with their gang. This is how he has been and he thinks he can continue in the same way even after marriage. It can be a bother when you have people dropping in unannounced at all times. You need to clearly tell your hubby that when he was alone in the house, it was okay but now things have changed. May be he thinks you resent them, but make it clear that it is not them but the fact they drop in unannounced.
Diana will solve it!
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