'I wonder whether my husband is gay...'
Dear Diana, I'm 26 and my husband is 27. We got married five months ago.
It was an arranged marriage. He’s so timid in bed that it makes me worry whether he’s gay. His mannerisms are also very effeminate sometimes. Should I confide my fears in him.
It is strange that you realise now that he is effeminate. Did it not strike you before marriage from his behaviour? Now suddenly you feel he is gay. You need to talk to him frankly and voice your concerns. Your guy may be shy in bed while you may be expecting him to be wild. May be he has a low sex drive. So, why don’t you take control in bed and let him know what you want.
Diana will solve it!
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