'My husband is obsessed with breasts'
Dear Diana, My husband is a nice guy and cares a lot for me and our family. However, when it comes to our sex life, things are quite unpleasant at least for me.
He has this boyhood fetish of only fondling my breasts while at it. I find it funny that a 30-year-old behaves like a teenager between the sheets! As the result, he spends too much time on my bosom and I’m tad bored by his antics which he seems to thoroughly enjoy. How am I supposed to make him aware that there is more to female anatomy than breasts?
Research has proved that men are programmed to be attracted to women’s bosoms. Women may think a man is being rude by ogling at their bust, but guys think they are lavishing compliments! Why don’t you joke with your guy that there is more than the bust? But when it really gets on your nerves, just tell him to stop. Tell him honestly what you feel. As you have not reacted all this while, he thinks you are enjoying it too — so he is doing more of it. Once you voice your grievance to your hubby, I am sure he will understand the situation and look beyond your breasts.
Diana will solve it!
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